My Dad

Like most kids, growing up I took my parents for granted. It's only now that I am a parent that I really appreciate the sacrifices they made to make my life wonderful. I see them with an entirely different perspective. Here are some memories of my Dad with a "then" and "now" perspective.

Walking to the Cedar Springs swimming pool (with Dad carrying the towel around his neck).

• Then: Yeah!! We get to go swimming!!!!!!!!!
• Now: He was giving my Mom a break from us (during what I believe was a rather stressful period of their lives) and giving us the opportunity to do something we loved.

Playing monster and run-by-tickle-tie.

• Then: "Giggles" and "screams"
• Now: Even after a long day at work when all he really wanted to do was watch a ball-game he made sure he played with us and stayed involved in our lives.

Going to see him on the stand at church.

• Then: I want a mint.
• Now: He always has tried hard to fuflill his priesthood responsibilities at church while still being a present and available father.

Laughing around the dinner table.

• Then: Dad's funny!
• Now: Even during busy and stressful times at work he tried to not let that affect his mood at home.

Proofreading all my english papers.

• Then: I've got to get this paper done and I need help.
• Now: Dad always encouraged us to do our best and taught us by example how to strive for excellence.

Seeing Dad at almost all of the games I cheered at.

• Then: Oh, good. He made it.
• Now: WOW!!!! Even with an amazingly hectic schedule and other demands on his time, Dad made it a point to support me in my activities.

Asking him for advice and always getting a very strait-forward response.

• Then: Oh, okay. I guess I should have thought of that.
• Now: I appreciate his wisdom and ability to see the big picture.

I LOVE YOU, DAD!!!!! Thank you for your example, love, and support. Happy Fathers Day!